Imagine having five-star 16th Century castle all to yourself, for you and your loved ones to enjoy your special celebration in private. 

For the duration of your stay, we’ll shut the doors to the public and allow you to immerse yourself in the castle and its grounds. You’ll also have access to our five luxury suites, which sleeps up to 16 people and if you’d like to have more guests stay nearby, we can recommend some brilliant accommodation in the nearby town of Lauder. 

Every wedding at Thirlestane Castle is different and created based on the happy couple’s vision. From grand to rustic, we have an abundance of locations across the estate to suit every style. If your wedding spans multiple days, you can use a variety of locations – from an intimate garden party in our former Rose Garden, to a rustic lunch in our Vaulted Cellars, surprise and delight your guests by letting them experience the full breadth of what the castle has to offer.

Our friendly team are on hand to curate your stay, by booking activities and creating memorable experiences for you and your guests. Our trusted suppliers are some of the best in the business, but if you have your own favourite suppliers of food, flowers, music or the finer details of your big day, we’d love to meet them.

If you have any questions, or want to discuss your wedding aspirations in detail, you can contact the team. 

Q1. How many guests can you accommodate in the day and the evening?
A1. We have a range of spaces that can accommodate anything from two people to 1000 people. We will suggest the best spaces for you based on your desired numbers.

Q2. How long can I provisionally hold a date for?
A2. We can hold a date provisionally for a period of 10 days.

Q3.  Is the Castle licensed for Civil Ceremonies?
A3. Yes, we are licensed for all types of ceremonies.

Q4. What accommodation do you have available?
A4. The castle has five luxury apartments (8 bedrooms) which sleeps a total of 16 people. There is other accommodation nearby which we can provide you a list of to help your planning process.

Q5. Will we have access to a wedding co-ordinator?
A5. Yes, the venue hire includes a member of staff on the day and in the lead up to your wedding, however please note that this is not a full wedding planning service. We can recommend wedding planners suited to your requirements so please let us know.

Q6. Are catering and other suppliers included?
A6. No. Upon booking we will provide you with our ‘Preferred Supplier List’ which contains lists of vetted suppliers that have worked with the castle before. You can select who you would like to work with and have individual contracts with each of them. We work with you and the supplier on logistics.

Q7. Do you allow Marquees and Stretch Tents?
A7. Yes, we have recommended suppliers for marquees and stretch tents. These can be pitched in the Rose Garden, Front Lawn, Cobbled Courtyard or Terrace area.

Q8. Is there a curfew?
A8. Evening celebrations are to end at 12.00 midnight with carriages at 12.30am. Guests are advised to pre-arrange taxi hire.

Q9. Do you allow confetti?
A9. Yes, we allow bio-degradable confetti such as flower petals however this is outside only.

Q10. Is there parking at the castle?
A10. Yes. We have a car park close to the castle entrance for guests staying in the accommodation. If non-accommodation guests wish to park at the castle we have a separate car park on the castle drive. 

Q11. What are your payment terms
A11. There is a non-refundable deposit of 20% of the venue hire upon confirmation of your reservation. A further 60% is due 6 months prior to the wedding and the final 20% is due 8 weeks before the wedding. All deposits are non-refundable. An additional refundable damage deposit of £500 is required 8 weeks prior to the event date.  

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The Finishing Touches

Luxury Castle Accommodation

A castle to yourself – the ultimate castle stay, with access to all suites (sleeping a total of 16) the Victorian Kitchen and use of the grand state rooms.

Award-Winning Suppliers

We work with caterers, photographers, stylists and wedding planners, and can recommend the very best in the business.

Activities & Experiences

Staying for a few days? Keep your guests entertained with exciting experiences, including a welcome soiree, brunch, tours of Edinburgh, Highland Games and whisky tasting. 

Love Stories at Thirlestane

Kamilla & Ilya

Thirlestane Castle was the chosen venue for an intimate elopement ceremony between Ilya and Kamilla, an adorable couple who worked tirelessly to get here amidst Covid-19 setbacks.

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Gracie & Daniel

Thirlestane Castle was the perfect venue for this couples grand vision which spanned over three days. Love Story coming soon…

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